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i have tried this before w/my bf and have had difficulty “getting it in”…what do you recommend to use or do to easily get it in? he says for us to use vaseline instead of ky jelly or astroglide AND he says for me to “play” around to get used to insertion and learn how to use my muscles. help plz..many thnx on your opinions/suggestions/experiences!
Just an fyi, this is, “vulgar.” (I’m sorry I couldn’t think of alternative words for everything, lol.)
Why don’t you tell him to “play” around. I don’t know what type of foreplay you two do, but, if he is fingering you out or eating you out it’d be very easy for him to massage/finger your butt at the same time.
KY Jelly should work just as well if he has been massaging your butt and making you feel more relaxed.
Also, you both could also go to a sex shop or Spencers gifts. They have anal beads or even other toys that start out small and gradually get bigger – if you use this with lube it will help you get looser so that your boyfriend could easily slide it in b/c it is most likely smaller than his penis at the starting point.
My best advice is to just relax. Include it in foreplay for a few sessions. You really do have to be comfortable with it to work. If your not that causes you to tense up! Also, if it does hurt you to bad, ask him to stop and give you a minute, then try again.
I don’t know if you drink at all, but this helps too! (Don’t be belligerent though, that would ruin the night!) It helps you feel relaxed and ready to have a good time! Takes the worries away!
Just remember to have fun with it!
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